After our marriage, my husband and I embarked on a journey that was not only deeply spiritual but also profoundly meaningful—our first Umrah together. It was a voyage of faith, love, and gratitude that strengthened our bond as a couple and brought us closer to our Creator.
The Decision to Go
Performing Umrah had always been a dream of mine, a cherished goal I hoped to fulfill someday. When my husband suggested we undertake this sacred journey together soon after our wedding, my heart swelled with joy. It felt like the perfect way to start our new life together, seeking blessings and guidance from Allah.
The preparations began with a mix of excitement and reverence. From learning the rituals of Umrah to ensuring we packed modest and comfortable clothing, every step was filled with anticipation. We also took time to study the history and significance of the holy sites we were about to visit, which deepened our connection to this journey.
The Journey to the Holy Land
The moment our flight landed in Jeddah, I felt an overwhelming sense of humility and gratitude. The air felt different, almost as if it carried the prayers and hopes of millions who had visited before us. As we made our way to Makkah, I couldn’t help but marvel at how Allah had blessed us with this opportunity.
Seeing the Kaaba for the first time is an indescribable experience. As we entered Masjid al-Haram and caught sight of it, tears streamed down my face. Standing beside my husband, hand in hand, I silently thanked Allah for granting us this moment together. It was as if all the worries of the world melted away, replaced by an overwhelming sense of peace.
Performing the Rituals
Together, we performed the tawaf, circling the Kaaba seven times while reciting prayers. Each step felt like a renewal of faith and a testament to our commitment to Allah and to each other. During the sa’ee—walking between the hills of Safa and Marwah—I reflected on the strength and perseverance of Hajar (peace be upon her), a reminder of the unwavering trust we should have in Allah’s plan.
One of the most poignant moments was drinking Zamzam water together and making heartfelt duas. In those moments, we prayed not just for ourselves but for our families, our future, and for the well-being of the Ummah. Sharing this sacred act with my husband felt like a beautiful manifestation of our shared faith and goals.
Lessons and Reflections
Our Umrah journey taught us invaluable lessons that will stay with us for a lifetime. It reminded us of the transient nature of this world and the importance of focusing on what truly matters: our relationship with Allah, our acts of worship, and the love and support we give to one another.
This experience also deepened our understanding of gratitude. From the countless blessings we often overlook to the privilege of standing in one of the holiest places on Earth, we realized how much we have to be thankful for. It reinforced our resolve to live a life guided by faith, humility, and compassion.
Moving Forward
Returning home, we carried with us not just memories but also a renewed sense of purpose. Our Umrah journey was a reminder that marriage is not just a partnership in this world but also a means to help each other attain Jannah. We are more committed than ever to supporting each other in our faith and striving to build a home filled with love, prayer, and the remembrance of Allah.
Performing Umrah with my husband was a transformative experience—one that will forever hold a special place in my heart. It was a journey that marked the beginning of our life together, not just as husband and wife but as companions striving for Allah’s pleasure. For anyone considering Umrah with their spouse, I can only say this: it is a journey that will bring you closer to your Creator and to each other in ways you cannot imagine.